We’re talking about winning her heart…
So, brother, your focus should be on impressing her heart and nothing else!
To win her heart, it takes much more than money and good looks.
Just remember one thing before you get started on this, she will not be impressed by the cards in your wallet if she’s also after your heart!
So make sure your efforts are not wasted on the wrong person.
This applies to both genders.
Guys usually search for ways to impress a girl to bed, and if you’re looking for those kinds of advice, you’re in the wrong place.
This post is for those sweet boys that care about their loved ones and are trying their best to win their girl’s hearts.
A wise man once said that you could be the best-looking person in the world, but if your personality is ugly then you’re ugly too.
So keep your inner heart pure and innocent, and you will not only win her heart but also everyone else’s too with your beautiful personality.
TIP-1: Being romantic is different from being desperate. . .
You should not be having sexual thoughts when you’re trying to win her heart…
Whether you’re still in the process of getting to know her or if you’ve already started dating her if you continuously talk about sexual matters every chance you get, trust me you’re not going to win her heart but rather make yourself look desperate.
Don’t get mad at her if she refuses to get physical with you even weeks or months after dating; it’s not her fault!
Remember what I said in the beginning, you’re trying to win her heart, and your focus should be on her heart not on anything else.
What NOT TO SAY ON A FIRST DATE
TIP- 2: She would rather have you take her to one of her favorite places than to a park or a pub!
Just because your friends take their girls to parks and pubs doesn’t mean you have to be like them. . .
Spend some time trying to get to know her likes and dislikes.
This is one of the most important things to do if you want to win her heart.
This does not mean you hand out a questionnaire to her and ask her to fill it in.
Just take things slow and get to know her day by day from her daily activities and her conversations with you.
E.g. if you two were planning on a day out and you know that she would instead visit a science museum than go to cinemas, why not visit the museum for her sake?
You might not be getting too physical with her at a museum, but you will impress her heart because you gave more importance to what she likes than following what everybody else is doing.
By doing this, you will make her feel respected and loved.
5 Tips to win a Woman’s heart
TIP-3: Tell her she’s beautiful, not sexy!
Girls love being called beautiful than sexy, fit, peng, etc
Things never to say to a woman!
TIP-4: Never compare her to your ex in both good and bad ways.
This can cause big problems in your relationship if you compare her to your ex at any circumstance. . .
Just because your ex-cheated on you or your friend’s ex-cheated on him doesn’t mean your girl is going to do that to you.
Stop comparing her to other girls who cheated in their relationships and learn to trust her for who she is.
If she got really mad at you for some reason, don’t shout at her saying “Ahh you’re just like my ex, this is why I broke up with her etc.”, if you say things like this she might end up saying goodbye to you forever so watch what you say to her.
Being compared to an evil ex will give her more pain than you breaking up with her so never compare her to your ex.
TIP-5: Don’t be too overprotective.
She is not your slave!
A little bit of jealousy is fine for a healthy relationship, but if you go over the top and complain about every single thing she does, you might end up losing her.
Some guys go to some extreme level and get angry because their girl is spending time with her boy cousin who is about the same age as her.
Well, you have to trust her, if she cheats on you, then she is not the one for you, and you should move on.
Don’t force her to give you a timetable of all her daily activities; she is your love, not a slave.
Don’t annoy her for simple things like not picking the phone up on the first ring or not getting ready on time.
She is a girl, and she is your girl, if you want to win her heart, you must learn to be patient with her, and this could mean letting go of your ego for your love’s sake.
TIP-6: Show interest in meeting her family members and becoming one of them. . .
This will let her know that you’re serious about her. . .
Most guys back off when it comes to introducing their girls to their family members and this makes girls suspicious about the future of their relationship.
So the sooner you introduce her to your family, the happier and secure she will feel about your love.
To win her heart, you have to try your very best to win her family members hearts as well.
Even if you don’t end up impressing her family members, you will impress her when you show interest in getting to know and get along with her family members.
You should also show a keen interest in introducing her to your family members even if it means you will have arguments with your family members because of her.
Not trying to say that she matters more than your mum or dad, but she does matter, so you have to be ready to take the risk in introducing her to your family members no matter what.
What if her parents or your parents disagree with your love?
If that happens by any unfortunate chances, make sure you`re ready to sacrifice your family members for her!
Don’t end up coming up with excuses such as “I love my mum so much and I can’t marry you if mum doesn’t agree etc.”.
You should have thought about all of these consequences before you got excited enough to fall in love with her and make her fall in love with you.
It won’t be fair on the girl if you make her fall in love with you, get her hopes high and then come up with family excuses to break up with her.
This applies to both boys and girls.
TIP-7: Kiss her on the forehead.
Its super cute and will make her happy
TIP-8: Be kind and helpful to others.
Rude boys might impress the minds but not hearts. . .
TIP-9: Can you cook?
If you cant, make her a simple sandwich at least.
TIP-10: Don’t break her trust.
You will break her heart too.
TIP-11: Don’ t judge other girls from what you heard about them.
Sweet things to say to your girlfriend to make her smile!
TIP-12: Oh you’re cherishing the memories of your ex? 😐
TIP-13: Be the first person to wish her on her birthday right at 12 am!
No matter what. . .
TIP-14: Allow her time to spend with her own friends too.
TIP#15- How can I win her heart even when she already has a boyfriend?
Oh my! Why on earth do you want to win another guy`s girl?
TIP#16: How to win a girl’s heart when she’s still in love with her ex?
This is a complicated situation.
I would call it a triangle relationship because you like her, but she loves him, and he doesn’t like her?
Firstly get to know the actual reasons [if possible] for why she broke up with her ex or why he broke up with her.
Be a good friend to her and give her the emotional support that she needs without taking advantage of her trust in you.
If she does trust you enough to let you know what happened in her previous relationship and so on, ask yourself this question: “Am I like her ex?”.
If your answer is yes then forget about winning her heart because you will never.
Fortunately, if you know in your heart that you are nothing like her ex and you will be everything she ever wanted from her boyfriend, then continue with the good friendship which might or might not grow into love.
You need a lot of patience when you’re in triangular relationship situations like this, so don’t rush into “I love you, can we go out?” straightaway, be patient and take things slow.
Who knows she might feel comfortable being with you and might start falling in love with you so find out what she likes/dislikes and act according to that.
Unless she tells you about her ex, you must never ask about him in both good and bad ways.
TIP#17: What’s the best thing you can do during a big argument with your girlfriend?
The best thing you can do is to keep quiet no matter how much she tempts your words.
This can be impossible at times, but it seriously is the best way you can quit the argument!
This tip applies for both guys and girls.
If you ever have a serious argument with your loved one, try your best to stay calm and quiet.
You wouldn’t be reading this if you don’t give a crap about that girl.
You love her so much, and no matter how worse your situation is, you want to be with her, and if that’s true, then you must keep calm and wait for her to calm down.
Even if whatever that caused the argument is not your fault, if you stay quiet and appropriately explain things, she will understand [hopefully], and things will get better again.
TIP#18: What can you do if you two are arguing 24/7 over anything and everything?
It’s time to test whose love is real.
Just take a break from the relationship for a while and continue with your everyday life.
If you love her so much, you would rather have her sit next to you arguing about something than not have her talk to you at all and it’s the same story with her too.
Eventually, you will both miss each other so much that one or sometimes both of you will come to an understanding to let go of each other’s ego and apologize and get together again.
However, most guys and girls make the silly mistake of going for a quick rebound after breaking up to ease their minds of the past and to make the other person jealous.
If you even think about doing this to your girl, do it only if you have no hope of getting back with her again.
Unless you want to forget your girlfriend entirely and move on with your life, do not attempt to fall for anyone else.
TIP#19: Periods are not always the cause of our mood swings!
Why do all guys ask a girl if she’s on her period just because she’s upset about something?
What makes you think you’re not the cause of her mood swing?
Why do you have to blame it on her period every time?
Girls [most of them] do get quite stressed and upset during their menstrual cycle, and it’s not our fault!
The hormonal changes that take place inside our bodies’ causes a lot of stress and pain for some women to go through what they go through during their menstrual cycles.
So next time you even think about asking a girl if she’s on her period, think twice!
Okay, there might be some girls who overact and blame it on their period every time but guys not all of us are like that!
TIP#20- 2. Spending too much time with your so-called `Sister from another mother.`
Is not always a good idea.
Some guys really mean it when they call a girl their sister but the rest don’t even know the meaning of the word `sister`.
They would call a girl sister, spend time with her, eventually flirt with her and get too touchy with her and lie about their relationship when confronted.
So if you know a girl whom you do see as a sister, make sure that you introduce her to your girlfriend and keep things open with her.
Its okay to spend time with your sister from another mother but just don’t overdo it.
Girls get jealous when they see their man spending too much time with other girls no matter who they are.
Sooo have you already won her heart or are you still in the process?
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